COVER -- Love and Grief: The Dilemma of Facing Love After Death -- Contents -- Foreword by the WAY Foundation -- Preface -- 1 Grief -- Poem: Dead Woman -- 2 Past, present and future: The threads that connect even in death -- Poem: Death is Nothing At All -- 3 Living in a triad: A triangle of confusion, love and loss -- Poem: The Tortured Mind of Grief and Love -- 4 Mars and Venus -- Poem: The Bed -- 5 Through the eyes of a child -- Poem: Children Speak Out -- 6 Judgement: The world comes in -- Poem: Into the Hour -- 7 People's stories -- Epilogue -- References and bibliography -- Useful contacts -- Subject index -- Author index.