Living, Loving, and Loss: The Interplay of Intimacy, Sexuality, and Grief -- Cover -- Title Page -- Copyright Page -- Table of Contents -- Foreword -- Preface -- Acknowledgments -- Introduction -- SECTION 1: Death, Grief, and Differences of Sexual Orientation -- CHAPTER 1 Death and Intimacy Issues in the LGBT Community: A Gay Perspective -- CHAPTER 2 Young People and Gender Issues: Living with Loss -- SECTION 2: Loss of Relationship and the Restoration of Intimacy in Families -- CHAPTER 3 Momma's Dead and Daddy's on Viagra!: Elder Widowers, ED Drugs, and New Romantic Relationships -- CHAPTER 4 Grieving a Not-So-Loved Parent: Sinking in the Mud of Hurtful Memories -- CHAPTER 5 Infertility and Intimacy: Life's Layered Losses -- CHAPTER 6 The Tolls of War: Intimacy and Sexuality Challenges for Soldiers and Their Families -- SECTION 3: Adjusting to Life's Losses by Aging or Illness or Infirmity -- CHAPTER 7 Birth of a Stranger: Intimacy, Sexuality, and Dementia -- CHAPTER 8 Love, Life, and Losses After 50 -- CHAPTER 9 Intimacy, Sex and Hospice: Self-Determination, Dignity, and Intimacy Options at the End of Life -- SECTION 4: Religious Bases for Understanding Intimacy, Sexuality, and Healing After Loss -- CHAPTER 10 Living, Loving, and Losing: A Spiritual Reflection Through the Eyes of a Rabbi -- CHAPTER 11 Engaging the Christian Voice in Defining (and Redefining) What Is Right -- Afterword: Toward a Spirituality of Love and Longing -- Bibliography -- Index -- Back Cover.