Intro; Title; Copyright; Dedication; Table of Contents; Introduction; Part One -- Strong Woman, Trapped; Chapter 1: When Everything Depends On You; The Birth of Wonder Woman; Exploding Door Mat Syndrome; Why Am I Surrounded by Idiots?; I Want to Run Away and Join the Circus; How Do You Get Relief When Everything Depends On You?; Chapter 2: True Responsibility; One Hundred Percent Responsibility Is Never Enough; Chapter 3: What Did Feminism Ever Do For You?; Trapped by Being "One of the Boys"; Trapped by "Taking Responsibility"; Trapped by False Meritocracy; Bias-You're Soaking in It What Does It Take for a Woman to Win?It's Kind of Cold in Here; Trapped in Our Stories; The Dirty Little Secret That Keeps Us Stuck; Part Two -- Escaping the Trap; Chapter 4: No is the New Yes; Where Is Your Resentment?; Stage a Rebellion; What's the Story?; Screw Approval Seeking Behaviors; Chapter 5: Feeling Strong, Being on Purpose; What Makes You Feel Strong?; Taking Care of You; On Purpose and Impassioned-Now What?; Chapter 6: Fast Train Out of Idiotville; The Case of the Totally Secret Obvious Answer; Hey Look, Smart People!; Chapter 7: Who is Coming Along With You? Your Tribe is In On the Juicy StuffWho You Gonna Call?; Chapter 8: Oops! I Forgot to Create My Reality!; We Liked You Better the Old Way; Deathbed Promises; Disappointment; Frenemies/Toxic Turd Buckets/Genuine Jerk Faces; Mind Your Business; Don't Go It Alone; Afterword; Acknowledgements; About the Author; Thank You; Notes.