Cover -- Praise for... -- Also by... -- Dedication -- Contents -- Introduction -- Part 1: Realize -- Chapter 1 - The Opportunity -- To Make A Difference -- When "It" Happens -- Your Survivors Will Suffer -- Unless You Realize -- Chapter 2 - The Value of Emotional Assets -- Why Meaningful Words Win Over Money -- What Matters Most -- Preserving the Connection -- The Bonus: You Get Peace of Mind -- Chapter 3 - Getting to Grips with Grief -- The Madness of the "Must Move On" March -- The Gaping Void You Want Them to Avoid -- The Badge of Bereavement -- Remember Me with Continuing Bonds -- Chapter 4 - Don't Mention the D-Word! -- A Diagnosis of Denial: What's Stopping You? -- Accepting the Inevitable Sets You Free -- It's Your Choice: Hide or Realize the Gift -- The Silver Lining: Start Following Your Bliss -- Part 2: The Gift -- Chapter 5 - Good Guidance -- The Power of Parenting by Proxy -- Who'll Support Them? -- You Could Use a Trustworthy Captain -- To Encourage Their Healthy Recovery -- Chapter 6 - Future Surprises -- Lonely Landmarks: 2, 4, 10 Years From Now -- When the "Firsts" Arrive -- With An Act of Courage -- You Can Create Something Special -- Chapter 7 - Life Story -- Share Your Lessons and Words of Wisdom -- To Complete The Circle of Life -- Let's Hear It! Tell Your Tales -- To Answer The Vital Questions -- Chapter 8 - Musical Memories -- Listen Up! The Power of Sound -- Will Soothe Their Suffering -- Keep Memories Alive -- Motivate Their Moods -- Part 3: In Goodbye -- Chapter 9 - Define Your Wishes -- The Onus is On You -- Pioneer or Passive Bystander -- Be True to You -- Honor Everyone's Needs Too -- Chapter 10 - Life Celebration -- I Did It My Way! -- The Beauty of Balloons -- Balancing Beliefs, Tradition and Religion -- Creating Your Own Vision -- Chapter 11 - R.I.P Rest in the Present -- Blessings in Disguise.

What Matters to You? -- Learning to Let Go -- Choose Love Now -- Epilogue -- Acknowledgements -- Recommended Viewing -- Recommended Reading -- Recommended Websites -- Bibliography -- Index.