FRONT COVER -- Alone Together: Making an Asperger Marriage Work -- Contents -- FOREWORD BY TONY ATTWOOD -- PREFACE -- ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS -- THE CACTUS AND THE ROSE -- 1. Becoming Aware of Asperger's Syndrome -- 2. Meeting the Handsome Stranger -- 3. The Wedding -- 4. The First Real Argument: I Married You for Fun, Not for Problems -- 5. Travelling to Australia: The White Board -- 6. The Honeymoon: Rigid Thinking! -- 7. Sexuality, Intimacy and Love -- 8. Making Friends -- 9. Starting a Family: Empathy and Theory of Mind -- 10. Babies and New Mothers are Unpredictable: Coping with Change -- 11. Arguments Need to be Resolved: Being Married to a Non-Communicator -- 12. A Family Requires Teamwork -- 13. The 'Girlfriend' -- 14. Dealing with Sickness: Associative Thinking Causes Stress -- 15. The Car Accident: Dizzy Spells can be Fatal! -- 16. Being There in Body but Not in Soul: Alone Together -- 17. The Energy Theory: My Way of Dealing with Tantrums -- 18. Bringing up Champions: How to Handle Criticism -- 19. A Good Day Turns Bad in a Matter of Seconds: How We Fix Arguments -- 20. How a Diagnosis Helps: Resources and Opportunities for Improving the Relationship -- 21. The Stress Factor: Understanding Each Other -- 22. Our Life Today -- EPILOGUE BY GAVIN BENTLEY -- USEFUL CONTACTS AND FURTHER READING -- BACK COVER.