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Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids : 7 Keys to Turn Family Conflict into Cooperation.
Title:
Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids : 7 Keys to Turn Family Conflict into Cooperation.
Author:
Hart, Sura.
ISBN:
9781892005427
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Physical Description:
1 online resource (254 pages)
Contents:
Cover -- Copyright -- Dedication -- Contents -- Charts and Activities xi -- Charts -- Communication Flow Chart -- Giraffe Expressing -- Giraffe Listening -- Needs List -- Feelings List -- Giraffe Self-Empathy -- Family Activities -- Topic: Giraffe & Jackal Culture -- Introduction to Giraffe Language & Jackal Language -- Giraffe & Jackal Language Chart -- Topic: Family Meetings -- Co-Create Agreements -- Create a Mission Statement -- Family Empathy Check-In -- Is That an Observation? -- Needs List -- Needs Mandala -- Needs Treasure Chest -- Fortune Cookies -- Feelings Books -- Feelings Leaves -- Chain of Gift Giving -- Topic: Life-Enriching Practices -- Give Gratitude -- D-Stress -- Re-Charge -- Take Time In -- Assess Your Needs (for Parents) -- Assess Your Needs (for Kids) -- Giraffe Notes of Appreciation -- Note of Appreciation Chart -- Giraffe Journal -- Translate Judgments -- Transform Anger -- Anger Thermometer -- Anger Thermometer Chart -- Daily Reminders -- Topic: Peaceful Conflict Resolution -- Pause It! -- Take 2 -- Resolve Your Own Conflict -- Giraffe Mediation -- Topic: Giraffe & Jackal Play -- Giraffe & Jackal Ears -- Feelings & Needs Cards -- Preface -- Acknowledgements -- Foreword -- Introduction -- Part I. The Foundation for Respect & Co-operation -- Chapter 1. Respect & Co-operation: What Parents Want and How to Get It -- Chapter 2. Self-Respect: Parents Have Needs Too -- Chapter 3. What Takes the Co- Out of Co-operation? -- Part II. The 7 Keys to Co-operation -- Key 1. Parent with Purpose -- Key 2. See the Needs Behind Every Action -- Key 3. Create Safety, Trust, & Belonging -- Key 4. Inspire Giving -- Key 5. Use a Language of Respect -- Key 6. Learn Together As You Go -- Key 7. Make Your Home a No-Fault Zone -- Part III. Family Activities & Stories from the No-Fault Zone -- Activities List -- Topic: Giraffe & Jackal Culture.

Topic: Family Meetings -- Topic: Life-Enriching Practices -- Topic: Peaceful Conflict Resolution -- Topic: Giraffe & Jackal Play -- Stories from the No-Fault Zone -- References -- Parenting Resources -- Recommended Reading -- Index -- How You Can Use the NVC Process -- Some Basic Feelings and Needs We All Have -- About PuddleDancer Press -- About CNVC and NVC -- Trade Books from PuddleDancer Press -- Trade Booklets from PuddleDancer Press -- About the Authors -- Back Cover.
Abstract:
More than a tool to correct bad behavior, this handbook urges parents to move beyond typical discipline techniques by creating an environment based on mutual respect, emotional safety, and positive, open communication. The seven outlined principles redefine the parent-dominated family by teaching parents how to achieve mutual parent/child respect without being submissive, set firm limits without using demands or coercion, and empower children to open up, cooperate, and realize their own innate potential. Based on Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication process, the framework helps parents break down the barriers to outstanding relationships with their kids by avoiding destructive language and habits that keep parents and children from understanding one another. Activities, stories, and resources help parents immediately apply the seven keys to any parenting situation.
Local Note:
Electronic reproduction. Ann Arbor, Michigan : ProQuest Ebook Central, 2017. Available via World Wide Web. Access may be limited to ProQuest Ebook Central affiliated libraries.
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