Introduction -- Part I: The Start of Healing and Empowerment -- Chapter 1 -- Footprints on the Heart and Soul -- Chapter 2 -- How to Use the Natural Motivation of Pain to Heal -- Chapter 3 -- How to Develop a Healing Identity -- Chapter 4 -- How to Use Restorative Images to Heal Painful Memories -- Part II: Retraining the Recovering Heart -- Chapter 5 -- The Key to Healing and Growth: Your Core Value -- Chapter 6 -- Getting to Core Value under Pressure: Your Core Value Bank -- Chapter 7 -- Intimate Betrayal and Post-Traumatic Stress -- Chapter 8 -- How to Change Hidden Guilt and Shame into Self-Compassion -- Chapter 9 -- Overcoming Resentment and the Danger of Trust -- Part III: Loving Again -- Chapter 10 -- The Path to Wise Trust -- Chapter 11 -- How to Know If You're Dating a Future Betrayer -- Chapter 12 -- Intimacy and the Hungry Heart -- Part IV: Rebuilding a Betrayed Relationship -- Chapter 13 -- Rebuilding a Relationship with Your Betrayer -- Chapter 14 -- The Compassionate Repair Process -- Chapter 15 -- The Reconnection Dilemma -- Epilogue -- Healing, Repair, Forgiveness -- References -- About the Author.