Acknowledgements -- Introduction: respect, accountability, and justice -- The duluth model / Michael Paymar, Domestic Abuse Intervention Program, MN -- John beams, center for non-violence, in, graham barnes, battered women©…s justice project, mn -- Individualized problem-solving / David Adams, Emerge, MA, David Garvin, Alternatives to Domestic Aggression, MI, Ted German, Emerge, MA -- Clinical integration / Paul Bukovec, Menergy, PA, Gary Gibbens, YWCA of Calgary, Canada, Chris Huffine, Allies in Change, OR -- Activist oriented / Dick Bathrick, Men Stopping Violence, GA, Ulester Douglas, Men Stopping Violence, GA, Phyllis Frank, Volunteer Counseling Services, NY, Hamish Sinclair, Manalive, CA -- Women leaders / Toby Myers, Pivot, TX, Alyce LaViolette, Alternatives to Violence, CA, Sara Elinoff Acker, Men Overcoming Violence, MA, Lisa Nitsch, House of Ruth, MD -- Other approaches / Dave Mathews, Domestic Abuse Project, MN, Tim Kelly, Changing Ways, London, Canada, David Russell, Second Step, PA, Steven Pepping, Peaceful Solutions, WA -- Beyond abusive men / Lisa Young Larance, RENEW, MI, Juila Perilla, Caminar Latino, GA, Craig Norberg, Jane Doe Inc., MA -- A final thought -- About the author.