Cover -- Title Page -- Copyright Page -- Table of Contents -- EDITORIAL FOREWORD -- ACKNOWLEDGMENTS -- ONE Why Lovers Can't Be Friends -- TWO Feminism and Promiscuity -- THREE Clarifying the Question, "What is This Thing Called Love?" -- FOUR Just Friends, Friends and Lovers, or . . .? -- FIVE The Morality of Teenage Sex and its Implications for Sex Education -- SIX The Burden of Initiation -- SEVEN The Complexity of "No": A Response to Rosenfeld -- EIGHT Prostitution and Date Rape: The Commodification of Consent -- NINE Participation or Consent: A Response to Moon -- TEN Can a Stoic Love? -- ELEVEN Gender Politics and the Cross-Dresser -- TWELVE Spinoza in Love -- THIRTEEN Whither Romantic Love -- FOURTEEN Commitment and the Bond of Love -- FIFTEEN Reply to van Hooft -- SIXTEEN Virtue Ethics and Adultery -- SEVENTEEN Critical Response to "Virtue Ethics and Adultery" -- EIGHTEEN Sexual Experience -- NINETEEN Desire and Arousal -- TWENTY Wise Woman versus Manic Man: Diotima and Alcibiades in Plato's Symposium -- TWENTY-ONE Wounded Eros -- T WENTY-TWO Self-Respect and Loving Others -- TWENTY-THREE Gender, Justice within the Family, and the Commitments of Liberalism -- TWENTY-FOUR Comments on Robert Card's "Gender, Justice within the Family, and the Commitments of Liberalism" -- TWENTY-FIVE IUDs, STIs, and DNA: Reconsidering Hume's Modesty Proposal -- TWENTY-SIX Commentary on Sheldon Wein's "IUDs, STIs, and DNA: Reconsidering Hume's Modesty Proposal" -- TWENTY-SEVEN Marital Pluralism: Making Marriage Safer for Love -- TWENTY-EIGHT Commentary on Eric M. Cave's "Marital Pluralism: Making Marriage Safer for Love" -- TWENTY-NINE Embracing Gayness with Integrity -- THIRTY Comments on Quinn's "Embracing Gayness with Integrity" -- THIRTY-ONE A Response to Raja Halwani's Comments.

THIRTY-TWO Sexual Use and What to Do about It: Internalist and Externalist Sexual Ethics -- THIRTY-THREE Love and Virtue -- THIRTY-FOUR Commentary on Raja Halwani's "Love and Virtue" -- THIRTY-FIVE Marriage Laws and Gender Discrimination: The Anti-Miscegenation Analogy -- THIRTY-SIX Same-Sex Marriage and Gender Discrimination: A Response to Orlando -- THIRTY-SEVEN Jung and Plato on Individuation -- THIRTY-EIGHT A Response to Martha C. Beck's "Jung and Plato on Individuation" -- THIRTY-NINE Friendship amongst the Self-Sufficient: Epicurus -- FORTY If Friendship Hurts, an Epicurean Deserts: A Reply to Andrew Mitchell -- FORTY-ONE The Dialectic of Love and Freedom: Does it Constitute a Fifth Form of Love? -- FORTY-TWO Love, Freedom, and Self-Knowledge: A Response to Meline -- FORTY-THREE Aristotelian Love-Making -- FORTY-FOUR Conscious Experience, Awkwardness, and Virtue: Reply to Wielenberg -- FORTY-FIVE Examining the Bonds and Bounds of Friendship -- FORTY-SIX Comments on Andrew I. Cohen's "Examining the Bonds and Bounds of Friendship" -- FORTY-SEVEN Insights from the Straight-Jacket: Epistemological Concerns Expressed by Religiously Motivated Anti-Queer Sentiments -- FORTY-EIGHT Comments on Ludger Viefhues-Bailey's "Insights from the Straight Jacket" -- FORTY-NINE Temperance and Sexual Ethics -- FIFTY Comments on Raja Halwani's "Temperance and Sexual Ethics" -- FIFTY-ONE The Transformation of the Husband/Wife Relationship during Exile: Letters from Cicero and Ovid -- FIFTY-TWO Separated Spouses and Equal Partners: Cicero, Ovid, and Marriage at a Distance -- FIFTY-THREE Aristotle and Kant on Self-Knowledge and Self- Disclosure through Friendship -- FIFTY-FOUR Comments on Alan Soble's Pornography, Sex, and Feminism -- FIFTY-FIVE Pornography, Dignity, and Polysemicity: Comments on Alan Soble's Pornography, Sex, and Feminism.

FIFTY-SIX Comments on Alan Soble's Pornography, Sex, and Feminism -- FIFTY-SEVEN Exploring Sartrean Desire: Men, Women, and Authentic Relationship -- FIFTY-Eight Sartrean Desire: Commentary on Woodman -- FIFTY-NINE Sexual Liberalism and Seduction -- SIXTY Comments on Eric M. Cave's "Sexual Liberalism and Seduction" -- SIXTY-ONE Virtue and the Value of Affective Transformation -- SIXTY-TWO Affective Transformation and the Kantian Moral Outlook: Comments on Susan Stark -- ABOUT THE AUTHORS -- INDEX.